UAE Ramadan 2024: Dress modestly, extend greetings, show respect, says etiquette expert

“Yes, there can be variations in Ramadan etiquette based on cultural practices and traditions. Understanding and respecting these variations contribute to fostering inclusivity and cultural sensitivity during Ramadan,” said Samira Hammadi, Founder of Modern Etiquette Consultancy.

According to Hammadi, there are certain dos and don’ts that must be observed during the holy month:

Dos:

• Show respect to those fasting by avoiding eating, drinking, or smoking in public during daylight hours.
• Extend greetings like “Ramadan Kareem” or “Ramadan Mubarak.”
• Dress modestly, covering shoulders and legs during the holy month of Ramadan.
• Practice patience and compassion towards those fasting.
• Embrace opportunities to participate in community iftars or charitable activities during the holy month of Ramadan.

Don’ts:

• Engage in loud or disruptive behavior in public spaces.
• Criticise religious customs or beliefs.

During the Ramadan period, most of the UAE population attend and host Iftars, which is the evening meal marking the breaking of fast.

“When invited to Iftar, Graciously Accept! Should you receive an invitation to join an Iftar meal, graciously accept,” she says.

Hammadi suggests bringing a “small gift” for the Iftar host and advises to arrive on time or a few minutes early.

“Iftar starts promptly at sunset and the hosts may have been preparing the meal for hours while fasting. If you anticipate being late, it is polite to inform your hosts in advance, as prayers may precede the meal,” she explains.

Offering assistance in preparations or table setting is also be considered as mindful actions as a guest.

She strongly advises against criticising the food, “Even if the food does not meet your taste preferences, it is merely etiquette to thank the hosts for preparing the meal, keeping in mind that they might have been fasting while preparing it. Instead, focus on expressing gratitude for the effort put into preparing the meal and enjoy the experience of sharing a meal,” she said.

Furthermore, Hammadi details appropriate behaviour while engaging with Muslim colleagues or friends during the holy month.

• Be mindful of fasting hours. During daylight hours, be considerate of your colleagues and friends who are fasting. Avoid eating, drinking, or smoking in their presence, opting for a discreet spot for lunch breaks or coffee runs.
• Recognise that fasting may impact energy levels. Be understanding and patient if your Muslim friends and colleagues seem a bit fatigued during fasting hours.
• Be flexible and accommodating in the workplace. Consider allowing for flexible work hours or breaks to accommodate prayer times or the need for rest during fasting.
• Extend a helping hand by asking if you can assist with errands, chores, or meal preparation, particularly during the hours leading up to Iftar (the breaking of the fast).

Common misconceptions

It is a common misconception that non-Muslims cannot participate in Ramadan activities, Hammadi explains, “Muslim communities welcome respectful participation and cross-cultural exchange from all faiths.”

“Ramadan is solely about food deprivation,” she explains that it is a time of spiritual growth, charitable giving and strengthening community bonds.

Furthermore, she clarifies that all Muslims must fast, in exception of those who have health reasons, travel-related reasons and other circumstances.

“Social life ceases during Ramadan. While daytime activities may slow down, there’s often a festive atmosphere after Iftar where life becomes more vibrant at night,” Hammadi details.

How to be mindful of cultural sensitivities and religious observances?

Respect diversity: Take the opportunity to educate yourself about the significance and traditions of Ramadan. Gaining insights into this holy month shows genuine interest and builds bridges of understanding.

Participate respectfully: If invited to iftar dinners or Ramadan gatherings, participate with respect and appreciation for the customs and traditions being observed. Dress modestly and be mindful of cultural norms regarding greetings and interactions.

“In the Middle East, it’s common to break the fast with dates and laban before moving on to a larger meal, while in South Asian cultures, iftar may include a variety of savory snacks and sweets. Additionally, the timing and format of community iftars and prayers may vary across different cultures, with some communities placing a greater emphasis on communal gatherings and others opting for more private observances. Understanding and respecting these variations contribute to fostering inclusivity and cultural sensitivity during Ramadan,” Hammadi concludes.